Common Signs of an Abusive Men
He’ll tell you you’re the most attractive person he’s ever met and swear you’re the only one who gets him. You’ll feel so amazing after spending time with this guy—he must be perfect, right? Not exactly. Be cautious when a guy who barely knows you starts heaping praise on you because he may be putting on an act
Abusers want a commitment because it’s easier to manipulate you. A whirlwind romance may feel like a fairytale, but it’s usually just an illusion. Abusive men often play the perfect partner at first, and they’ll try to sweep you off your feet.
An abusive guy sets high expectations for you as a form of control. Before a guy starts abusing you, he’ll often make you responsible for all of his feelings. He’ll expect you to be his biggest supporter and to drop everything to be there for him.
If he has a history of abusing his partners, it’s very unlikely he’ll change. He’ll probably have an excuse for why he hurt his ex, and he may even blame them. To put you at ease, he might swear that he’s changed and promise that he’ll treat you better.
An abusive guy wants power over you. Even when you’re in love, you should still have your independence, as well as the time and space to see your friends and pursue your goals.
An abuser uses jealousy as a way to control you. You might think that jealousy is a sign of passion, but it’s actually caused by insecurity. While it’s normal to feel jealous every now and then, an abusive guy will get jealous of practically everyone—and may even accuse you of cheating
Abusers think that they're more important than everyone else. In a healthy relationship, you’re both equal. However, an abusive man will think he’s superior to you, even if he doesn’t say it outright. Additionally, he’ll think his needs are more important than everyone else’s, and other people are beneath him. Watch for things like being rude to restaurant servers, insulting his coworkers, or complaining when he doesn’t get what he wants.t
Abusers hide their true nature by acting sweet sometimes. During good times, he’ll be kind and loving—especially in public. When he gets upset, he may lash out at you and seem like a different person. Be careful if your man flips like this because it’s a common sign that he’s an abuse
A man who’s cruel to animals is more likely to mistreat you. If he can be mean to animals, he’ll probably mistreat you, too
His Car always has Dents, and he Never Fixes them.
Abusers love to push your boundaries and only care about themselves. He may pretend that he’s just playing or getting carried away, but he’s still being abusive. You get to make choices about when and how you have sex. It’s never okay for a guy to pressure you, even if you’re in a consensual relationship
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